About Rhonda

Rhonda Stoppe is an author and speaker dedicated to helping women live life with no regrets. With over 30 years experience as a mom, mentor, and pastor’s wife, Rhonda’s wisdom and experience will help you:

  • Discover significance in God and His specific purpose for your life.
  • Connect biblical principles to everyday decisions.
  • Develop a loving marriage that others dream about.
  • Influence the next generation by raising children with integrity.
  • Leave a legacy of a life well-lived with no regrets!


Rhonda Stoppe is the NO REGRETS WOMAN. With more than 20 years experience of helping women build a no regrets lives. I could have listened to Rhonda talk all night, is what women say about Rhonda’s enthusiastic, humorous, transparent teaching, and zeal as an evangelist.
She’s committed to fulfill the Titus 2:4 commission by mentoring, teaching and writing books that are inspiring, grounded in Scripture and easy to read––like you’re visiting with a friend over coffee.

Rhonda is the author of 6 books and appears on numerous radio programs including FamilyTalk, Focus on the Family, Family Life Today and hosts The No Regrets Hour. She speaks at women’s events, Pastor’s Wives Conferences, MOPs and homeschool conventions. Sharing the gospel is her sweet spot––she’s an evangelist at heart. Watch this video of Rhonda sharing the gospel.

Rhonda ministers alongside her husband Steve, who pastors First Baptist Church of Patterson, California. They live out their own Real Life Romance writing books and speaking at their No Regrets Marriage Conferences, but their favorite ministry is their family. They have four grown children and 10 grandchildren. To learn more about Rhonda’s speaking topics, watch her teaching and to book Rhonda for your next event visit: NoRegretsWoman.com
Bonus: Watch this fun video of Steve & Rhonda sharing their own love story.


Rhonda Stoppe gives wives real help! She puts her finger on problems and attitudes that plague every married woman—and then supplies answers, solutions, and counsel from God’s Word.
–Elizabeth George- best selling author A Woman After God’s Own Heart

Real Life Romance is filled with real-life stories that will rekindle your hope and remind you how good God is at writing the best love stories!
–Renee Swope, best selling author of A Confident Heart

This is the book for everyone who wants to be content and happy in her marriage but just may not know how.”
– Shaunti Feldhahn, social researcher and best-selling author of For Women Only

Rhonda has a solid understanding of what the Bible says about mothers and sons, and she uses real-life examples and a tell-it-like-it-is style of wisdom that is needed for this day and age.”
–Matthew West 5-time Dove Award nominated Christian recording artist

Rhonda Stoppe debunks misleading myths with grace, humor, and candor and leaves you with hope that your marriage can become more than the stuff of your dreams
–Dr. Richard Blackaby, The Seasons of God, Customized Parenting in a Trending World

If you are wondering what’s next in life or in love, turn the pages of this book, and let the love God has for you infuse love into your relationship.
–Pam Farrel, author of 45 books including Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti and Red Hot Monogamy 

The insights Rhonda shares by using the blueprint of God’s Word are a gift that will inspire a new generation of world-changing mothers.”
–Phil Joel Songwriter and founder of deliberatePeople Ministries

When my husband had an affair, I thought my marriage was over, but Rhonda and Steve Stoppe helped us begin the healing process in our  marriage by covering my husband and I with the love of our Savior. Their mentorship has been instrumental in making our heavy circumstances less burdensome. Rhonda and Steve provide godly insight that imparts hope for the future.

Steve & Rhonda Stoppe

Click Here to Watch the Marriage Mentor Videos with Steve & Rhonda Stoppe

RHONDA’S MESSAGE: Rhonda’s passionate to teach women how to break free from regret and to build NO REGRETS LIVES. Rhonda & her husband Steve have spent more than 30 years mentoring couples to build no regrets marriages.

As she enthusiastically communicates the doctrine of Scripture to listeners, Rhonda’s love of Scripture memorization is apparent as God’s word is woven throughout her message.  With contagious zeal, Rhonda inspires women to live the life God intends them to live by; having a genuine relationship with Jesus, commitment to live in obedience to Christ, and turning from apathy to surrender to His purpose for their lives. (Rhonda is an evangelist at heart so she is faithful to share the Gospel in her books and at her events.)

Rhonda is a sought after speaker for women’s events, including Southern Baptist Convention’s Women’s events and Ministers’ Wives Conference. She is a favorite speaker for women’s retreats, MOPs events, the VHE & Great Homeschool Conventions, SCOPE & CHEA Conventions, and at California’s Spirit West Coast Music Festival. Rhonda has taught women’s chapel at The Master’s College, and will speak at California Baptist University in the fall of 2015. As a favorite of radio hosts, Rhonda has appeared on programs including, On Point, Divine Calling, Bold Living, Campus Crusade, and others.


Rhonda ministers along side of her pastor, husband, at First Baptist Church of Patterson, California. Her priority ministry is to her husband, her four adult children & their spouses, and her  11 grandchildren. Rhonda and Steve live life with no regrets on a their ranch in Northern California. #StoppeEverAfter #NoRegretsWoman #LifeintheCanyon





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